Comics Show The Real Struggles Of Parents Having A Second Baby

Everyone usually has their plans in life. For some, that means starting a family. Whether it’s a happy accident or something parents plan for years, there are many ways to bring little ones into the world. What’s one thing that’s united plenty? The struggles when having another baby.

Israeli stars Yehuda Devir and his wife Maya are married comic artists who took the internet by storm with their “One of Those Days” series. Here, the pair share what it’s really like to raise a little one, welcome another new addition, and how they’re learning on the job to become parents.

Be prepared for plenty of changes – and opinions from toddlers about them all

One thing plenty of parents get to experience is just how much life changes once they’ve welcomed a little one. However, one thing that might slip some mom-to-bes’ minds is how much their bodies change as a result. Sure, pregnancy can be enough to see plenty of changes, but what about once the baby is here?

If you want to know what the world really thinks of you, just ask a toddler. Their unfiltered opinions usually aren’t attempts to bring people down. However, telling their mom, “it’s so soft,” when poking her post-pregnancy belly might not be the words every parent wants to hear after a long day of looking after the family.

Having another baby all starts with some pretty memorable moments

Of course, welcoming a family all starts with the birth of a little one, right? Many of us have seen it in the movies. Still, it’s not until many parents are in the hospital preparing to welcome a baby that they realize just how tough the entire thing can be. The twist? It doesn’t get easier when having another baby.

They might be cartoons, but it might not be hard to see the realization in this couple’s faces. While mom is busy going through pain unlike anything she’s probably experienced in her life, dad is learning just what the human body can do. We’re just glad the nurse seems to be happy about it all.

Introducing the new addition is one of the benefits of welcoming another baby

Thankfully, the parenting struggles of having another baby are all worth it when you get to bring a new addition home for the first time. What about introducing them to their brothers and sisters? It appears that’s something Yehuda and Maya Devir remember better than most other aspects of their first few days at home with the new family.

Rather than keep those special moments to themselves, the rest of the world can enjoy the beautifully touching moment thanks to their impressive comic. We wonder how much their new baby slept after this moment or if drawing it was a way to remember the time that he used to sleep through the majority of the day.

How much TV time is too much TV time for toddlers?

“We’ll never let our children watch TV” is something plenty of parents have said to themselves before a little one arrives. Hands up if you were once in the no TV club but have since changed your tune? You’re not alone. Of course, there are plenty of thoughts about how much screen time to give your child each day.

For these parents, it seems the first time they turned on the TV was enough to blow their minds. No, it wasn’t the wonders that can often be kids’ TV – it was the mesmerizing effect screens can have on toddlers. It turns out it was no black magic, just a toddler having her mind blown by the screen.

One of the struggles of having another baby is losing time to have romantic nights

Becoming new parents is always going to change a relationship. What about one of the many struggles that come with having another baby? That’s right; we’re talking about trying to show your partner just how much you care – even when they’re heavily pregnant. It turns out all the planning in the world might not be enough to set the mood.

Perhaps that’s why Yehuda Devir created this comic? What was supposed to be a romantic night with Maya quickly turned into a disaster when she banged her head on the wall. To top it off, the romantic outfits of the past are long gone now a baby’s on the way and have been replaced with the ultimate comfort outfits instead.

Getting a good night’s sleep might be few and far between with a baby on the way

There’s nothing like curling up in bed at the end of a long day. What about when you’re set to have a baby any day soon and trying to get to sleep is harder than it ever should be? Even getting comfortable can often feel like a full workout, let alone trying to make it through the night.

Sometimes, you gotta do what you gotta do – even if that means taking up the entire bed. While Yehuda Devir might be squished against the edge of the bed, Maya appears to be getting the best night’s sleep. We guess this happened more than once, judging by the fact it was immortalized as a comic.

Never trust a sneeze when it’s coming from a toddler

Ah, welcoming a baby. It’s meant to be the most beautiful thing in the world, right? Right?! While some parents like to tell the rest of the world that they wouldn’t change a moment about bringing a baby into the world, others are more open about the struggles that come with being parents. We think Yehuda Devir is the latter.

What started as a simple sneeze quickly turned into a giant mess thanks to the wonder that’s often having toddlers. How do they make so much mess, and where does it all come from? They’re only small, after all. Whatever the case, we think these parents might need a larger tissue to clear up this sticky mess.

Perfecting various sleeping shapes is one of the many things new parents have to learn

Getting a good night’s sleep can be tough at the best of times. What about when you learn the wonder of musical beds that comes with starting a family? You might think carrying them for nine months is the last time you’ll ever be that close, but you just wait until it’s time to make it through the night.

Just like plenty of other children, it seems Yehuda and Maya’s little ones need to be as close as possible every night. While it might not look like the most comfortable way to sleep, it appears this family has perfected bed Tetris. We’re not sure we want to know how they feel after waking up from these positions, though.

Cussing might not make things easier, but it can often help

It can be easy to take for granted all the things we used to be able to do in a few moments before starting a family. Even something as simple as a trip to the store can suddenly take hours once we’ve got everyone ready to head out. How can someone take so long to get in the car?

While there are plenty of tips for taking a road trip with the kids, they don’t make fitting car seats easier. It can often feel like they make them deliberately complicated, so they’re even tougher to fit when you’re in a rush. We’re just glad to see Maya has stepped up to play the role of supportive wife.

Those first words are going to be remembered for the rest of everyone’s lives

Even though it can be tough to keep focused on the end goal when battling the struggles of having another baby every day, parents often get reminders about why they extended the family. Take those milestone moments. It could be the first steps, crawling, or learning how to babble – they’re all moments most parents never forget.

However, it seems that mom and dad have two different memories about the first time their daughter said “mama.” For mom, it was a moment to treasure forever. Dad? He remembers the flood of tears that came with the moment – and perfectly recreated them in one of the most honest parenting comics for the world to enjoy.

There are days every parent needs a little comforting from their partner

You can read all the parenting books and buy all the latest baby trends, but nothing quite prepares parents for what it’s like to be pregnant than the real thing. Does it get any easier when having another baby? Apparently not. After all, they say parents often forget what it’s like to go through pregnancy after welcoming a baby.

It appears that might have been the case for this couple, as mom suddenly remembers what it’s like to carry a little one for nine months. Sure, our bodies are usually designed for this, but that doesn’t make it any more straightforward. Sometimes, we all need someone to hold us and stroke our hair to make things better.

The balancing act of work and parenting is a tough one to juggle

It can be tough to learn how to multitask. Some of us don’t even grasp the basics before starting a family. So what are we supposed to do when there are little ones involved, and we need to work? Apparently, Yehuda Devir and his wife Maya want to use their comics to show the world it’s a balancing act.

Even something as simple as remembering a little one’s favorite pasta can quickly become a challenge when you’re left alone in the store. While calling mom might have seemed like a good idea, it looks like she already has her hands full. After all, juggling work around block toys and reaching hands isn’t something many can do.

Jon Snow knows exactly what this change of seasons means

There are plenty of signs that the changing season is on the way. According to Yehuda Devir, if you’re married, then you don’t need to look any further than your wife’s legs. That’s right; if there’s any sign of hair, then it probably means the days of skirts and dresses are long gone, and it’s time to cozy down.

How come leg hair grows back so fast yet seems to take so long to remove? Rather than waste time primping for no one to see, it appears that Maya is like plenty of others across the world. That’s right; winter is a time to put the razor down and let Mother Nature do her thing, leg hair and all.

Having another baby can often feel like an Olympic sport

Do you sometimes feel as though having a family is like running your own personal race through this life? You’re not alone. In fact, Yehuda and Maya Devir agree so much that they created an Olympic special of their real-life parenting comics. Blink and you’ll miss it, because we appear to have joined the relay race.

However, instead of passing batons around, this team is working hard to get the milk from the warmer to the right hands and to the baby without a screaming match. They certainly look as though they’re dressed for the part. We just hope they came back with the gold medal and not one they would rather forget.

Sometimes, pregnancy announcements are best kept short and sweet

There’s nothing like learning there’s a little one on the way. Of course, you could just tell your family, but why do that when you could have one of the best pregnancy announcements instead? Amazingly, this artistic pair captured the moment their daughter realized she was going to be a big sister in the best way possible.

It appears she got to be there the moment mom and dad saw the new baby for the first time. We guess judging by the look on her face, she wasn’t quite sure how to take the news that she wouldn’t be the only one in their lives anymore. Hopefully, it didn’t take long to come around to the idea.

Getting used to all the changes is easier said than done when having another baby

Having fun with the family is all part of the job of being a parent. So what are you supposed to do when you get to the beach and suddenly realize things have changed since the last time you slipped into a swimsuit? According to this parenting cartoon, it can leave some moms feeling a little self-conscious.

We hope it wasn’t too long before she forgot all about the rest of the world and got to have fun with the rest of her family at the beach. After all, the little one appears to be having the time of her life with a sand sandwich. If dad can sport a pink polka dot hat, anything’s possible.

Tag-teaming is one of the best ways to wrangle toddler tasks

Love it or hate it, there are certain things that need to be done when you’re a parent. Want to practice? Try wiggling the cat into a onesie or cleaning up a mess only to immediately pour a pot of paint over the room and do it all again. Even then, there’s a chance several parents won’t be prepared.

Clipping nails and cleaning up something we’d rather not know what it is are just a part of the package when it comes to raising toddlers. What could be more fun than adding another pair of hands to the mix? We’re just glad to see these parents have learned how to tag-team things to get through the to-do list.

Anything becomes an Olympic sport when toddlers are involved

Why wash your toddler when you could give the entire bathroom a wash-down instead? That’s what this little one seems to think, as they’re having the time of their lives with the showerhead. We’re not sure the look on mom’s face says she’s having the most enjoyable time, though. After all, someone has to clean it up.

Bath time is something parents either usually love or hate. While it can be fun to spend time splashing around with little ones as they get ready for bed, it can also be pretty traumatic. After all, we’re not sure many would choose to deal with a flood each night just because they tried to wash the toddler.

No one said that parenting would be like going to battle

Many have heard that love is a battlefield, but what about parenting? Is there anything in the rules that tells parents how to make it out the other side without feeling like they’ve gone to war? We guess not, or these parents probably wouldn’t be left feeling like this at the end of a long day.

While their little ones appear to be more than happy with themselves at the top of the mountain, mom and dad might need a night or two off to recover. No one ever said that parenting is easy. In fact, it comes with plenty of struggles. However, the payoff at the end usually makes every tough day worth it.

Those big red buttons are often the most tempting thing in the room

If there’s one thing plenty need – whether we’re parents or not – it’s some time to ourselves. Whether it’s catching up on work or unwinding with a videogame or two, there are plenty of times we love to shut the door on the rest of the world and sit back with the computer. So what happens when a toddler gets involved?

In this case, it seems the big red button was a little too tempting. While mom’s there to try and undo some of the damage, it might be too little too late. It’s a moment plenty of parents have had to deal with throughout the years and only gets more interesting when more little ones are added to the mix.

The little moments can often pass parents by if they don’t stop and take a moment

What do parents most look forward to from raising little ones? Some love to see the people their children grow up to become. Others enjoy watching them reach major milestones in their lives. Whatever the case, the struggles of having another child can often be outweighed by the incredible moments that come with starting a family.

What better way to remember the joy you get from your family than by drawing those memorable moments? That’s what Yehuda Devir did, and now he can enjoy taking his toddler to kindergarten for the first time over and over again. Sometimes, it’s the simple things that bring us the most joy in this world.

Learning to compromise is all part of learning how to be a parent

Hands up if you’re someone who likes something done a certain way and you struggle to compromise? You’re not alone, but becoming a parent might mean we need to hear someone out every now and then. Even though Yehuda Devir and his wife Maya appear to enjoy parenthood, they’ve been pretty open about their struggles.

One of the many that’s been highlighted in their real-life parenting comics is how they both think they know what’s best for their daughter. Thankfully, they both want to see her grow up to be happy and healthy. However, it has seemingly led to one or two disagreements along the way as they struggle to come to a happy medium.

Everyday tasks aren’t so easy when something’s always in the way

Plenty of people talk about the glow and beauty that comes with being pregnant. What some prefer to ignore is how their bodies change pretty dramatically throughout the nine months and that everyday tasks become just that: tasks. Want to put your shoes on without any help? Good luck once your bump gets big enough.

Thankfully, it seems that Yehuda Devir is there for his wife Maya throughout it all, even if it means helping with things that used to be so easy. It’s not every day that we have to admit we’re defeated by sneakers. However, being heavily pregnant and trying to battle shoes is another task all on its own.

Nothing beats sucking on a sneaker when you’re a toddler

As much as many of us say we’ll never spoil our children, it can be tough to stick to our personal rules as soon as we see their faces. It can be even tougher when we realize the joy we feel from seeing them open all their new things each birthday and during the holidays.

However, if you look closely, you might notice that this toddler seems far happier sucking on a sneaker than paying attention to everything waiting in those gifts. Hopefully, mom and dad still get the fun of watching her open all those gifts and don’t spend the next few hours watching toddler v. sneaker take place.

A family who sleeps together stays together

Becoming a parent isn’t all a walk in the park. In fact, it can be even more of a struggle when there’s a new addition on the way. Sure, we’ve been there and practiced everything we need to know, but nothing can quite prepare parents for the responsibility of looking after a new life as soon as they’re here.

Thankfully, Yehuda seemed to find a moment to take it in before turning it into a beautiful comic. All he needed were his two girls, and he seemed set for the night. Judging by the smile on Yehuda’s face, we guess he enjoyed having his wife sleep in his arms and his daughter on his lap more than anything.

Only special people are worthy enough to lift a pregnant woman off the floor

If you’re a fan of the Marvel character Thor, this cartoon highlighting the struggles of welcoming a new baby might hit a little closer to home. After all, helping a heavily pregnant person off the floor is never an easy feat. Thankfully, Yehuda Devir has found a little way to add some humor to the situation.

Rather than have a regular comic of trying to help Maya off the floor, Yehuda added a dash of superhero to it all. The question is: is he really worthy of lifting his wife? We would sure hope so. However, the look of confusion and question mark around Maya’s face tells us she might not be in on the joke.

Turn that frown upside down in a second with the help of a smiley face

One thing parents quickly learn is that little ones tend to fall down – a lot. Sure, there will probably be tears and maybe the bribe of some ice cream or a sweet treat to make things better, but it hopefully shouldn’t be long until there’s a smile back on their face. How about taking a leaf out of this book?

It appears that one of the best memories the couple wanted to reminisce over was the time they helped their daughter feel better about her boo-boo. All they needed to do was take that frown and turn it upside down on her bandaid to make the whole thing a little brighter. We’re sure she was smiling again in no time.

A fight with a loved one can often feel like a round in the ring

Being in a relationship isn’t always easy. Adding children into the mix can sometimes make things even more challenging. Sure, there will be bad days, but the good should hopefully outweigh the issues that come our way. That doesn’t mean this pair want to sugarcoat how things really are behind the scenes of a busy family.

This might be one of the best ways to show how it feels to be parents. While they don’t actually go ten rounds in the ring every time there’s an issue, it can sometimes feel as though we’ve been through the wringer by the time we’re done with a fight. Hopefully, it’s not long before they both recover each time.

Shopping Black Friday sales is usually a pretty dangerous game for parents

Let’s face it; many of us have been to the store for one thing only to walk away with a host of items we never knew we needed. How were we supposed to know we needed another air fryer until we saw one on sale? Add Black Friday into the mix, and it could be a dangerous combination for many.

It appears that’s something these parents and plenty of others have been through – especially when preparing to welcome a new baby to the family. All those children’s toys teamed with a few knick-knacks that would look perfect at home can be the best way to burn through a paycheck without realizing all of our money’s gone.

Certain milestones can feel incredible when having another baby

Raising a child starts long before they’re a part of our world. From the day many learn they’re having another baby, they begin to think about the vitamins, diet, and lifestyle changes they need to make. Of course, then come the milestones. When will the baby kick? When will parents need to head to the next scan?

For this couple, they want the world to know just how beautiful some moments can be when waiting for a new arrival, especially when there’s already a little one in the family. Thankfully, it seems everyone is amazed to enjoy some of those special moments. We’re just glad the world gets to enjoy it now, too.

Workouts are tough when you only have limited time to yourself

There are days that some of us want to get up and tackle the day head-on. Then there are days that we want to spend every minute on the couch, forgetting about the rest of the world. Sometimes, being parents means the latter is even more tempting when you finally get some time to yourself away from the little ones.

While things might have started with good intentions by dressing in workout gear, we guess it doesn’t take much for either of these parents to convince the other they don’t really need to work out. While the unicorn plushie doesn’t look too amused by their decision, it seems the Hulk plushie is more than happy to spend the day snacking.

It might be time to make those playpens large enough for all the family

Ah, babies. They’re so small and yet somehow need so many things to thrive and grow into people. That’s where the problems begin. Being so small means babies don’t always need large things to have fun. So how is dad supposed to enjoy playtime too when everything’s made for someone a fraction of his size?

We guess that’s one of the issues Yehuda Devir has faced throughout the years, judging by the fact he created this comic. Sure, it might not be the first struggle many think of when they consider having another baby, but it’s hard to get it out of our minds now. Those playpens are just a little too small.

One of the many struggles of having a new baby is getting used to more sleepless nights

Learning how to sleep after having another baby can be tough. Thankfully, there are several tips for getting the sleep parents need with a newborn. That doesn’t always mean it’s easy to try them out and ensure we get our eight hours every night. Apparently, that’s something Yehuda Devir and his wife Maya have also learned.

At least, that’s the vibe we’re getting from this comic. While dad is seemingly doing all he can to hold it together to try and get the baby to stop crying, it appears mom can’t keep her eyes open for one minute longer. Even the Hulk and unicorn plushies have had enough of the crying at this hour.

Never touch a pregnant woman’s food if you want to keep your hand

Have you ever had one of those days when you crave nothing more than a salty meal? You’re not alone, but being pregnant can often make those cravings almost impossible to ignore. It seems that’s something this dad-to-be has learned the tough way over the years. We just hope he learned his lesson after this one.

If there’s one thing you probably don’t want to do, it’s irritate a pregnant woman. However, the more we think about it, the more we think it might be best to leave her plate of fries. After all, we’re not sure there are many who would be able to stomach a plate of fries completely hidden by all the salt.

Having another baby certainly resulted in some of the most adorable comics

One of the best things about having another baby is getting to see how other little ones react. After all, being a big sister is a big responsibility. So, why not have some fun with the family as you wait for the new arrival? That seems to be just what’s happening here as they pose for an adorable shot.

While plenty are used to all kinds of awkward family photos, this is certainly one that belongs in the family album – especially because it’s drawn by the parents-to-be. It certainly looks as though this little one is looking forward to the new baby, judging by the fact she can’t help but try to look just like her mom.

Sleeping in your own bed becomes a thing of the past once children arrive

While some parents quickly decide that one baby is enough, others can’t wait to welcome as many children as possible into the world. However, there are sometimes reminders about the struggles of being a parent that can be easy to forget. Like to sleep on your own with your own space in your own bed?

That might quickly become a thing of the past. That is if your little one is anything like these parents’ daughter. Sure, she could sleep in her own bed, but where’s the fun in that when she can practice her karate moves on dad instead? At least mom and daughter are blissfully unaware of the midnight fight taking place.

Who knew we could sleep in all kinds of positions?

Each stage of having a baby comes with its own ups and downs. We guess this couple quickly learned that many youngsters go through a phase when they won’t sleep in their own room without one of their parents by their side. Sitting in the dark, teamed with a likely lack of sleep, can often be a dangerous situation.

While mom has somehow found herself sleeping in one of the strangest positions, dad can proudly look over his family as they pass the night away. We just hope mom wasn’t there for too long, or she might have had a pretty sore shoulder by the time she came around. Maybe it’s time for dad to tag-team in?

One of the biggest struggles when having another baby is finding time for your partner

There are plenty of things to look forward to when starting a family. Unfortunately, there are also plenty of struggles when having another baby, such as trying to enjoy your anniversary in peace. There’s usually a time when plenty get to wake up in peace and shower each other with gifts as they celebrate their love for one another.

Although that might have been the case at one point for these parents, those days are long gone. Instead, their anniversary is filled with crying babies, toddlers needing help, and a lack of sleep. Sure, it’s not the situation that many imagine, but time as a family can often be enough to put a smile on people’s faces.

Looking for appreciation online can sometimes be the easier option

Did you know that the world was once calming down the obsession with social media? That’s right; the number of hours a day spent endlessly scrolling plateaued somewhat in 2020 until lockdowns meant people were on their phones more than ever before. Now, people spend an average of 2 hours 27 minutes a day on social media.

It can be easy to get sucked into the world of trying to find appreciation and love online instead of those around us. That often gets even worse when we have a family and suddenly lose time we used to spend with our partners. This comic certainly highlights one of the harsh realities that can often come with family life.

It might be time to forget what it’s like to have nice things

Do you like expensive things? Maybe you’re used to leaving all kinds of “dangerous” items such as tools and cooking utensils within arm’s reach? How about those expensive electronics you’ve spent so long saving up for over the years? One of the many struggles of having another baby is learning all of those need to go.

Okay, you might not have to have a yard sale just yet, but having little ones in the house can certainly be enough to make many realize how unsafe their homes are for little hands. Even though these parents seem to be on top of getting everything away, little ones often have a habit of always finding something they shouldn’t.

Pregnancy cravings are a force like nothing else on the planet

Having one baby might be enough to reveal plenty about what it’s like to be pregnant. Having another might remind you of all the things you forgot about from the first time around. Perhaps you’d forgotten about all those cravings and how strong they can be when the baby decides they want something in particular to eat?

While dad is tucking into a small sandwich, mom is busy building something that would put most eating challenges to shame. From Nutella to fried eggs and everything in between, we’d be surprised if there’s any food left in the kitchen after this creation. So long as mom enjoyed it, then it’s worth the mess.

You can run, you can hide, but toddlers will find you

Many moms have been there. You know the times when you just need five minutes to yourself and find yourself hiding in a dark corner of the house to get away? On the other hand, plenty of partners have been on the other of things. These are the moments you really need your partner’s help but can’t find them anywhere.

Parenting can be a tricky balancing act, and welcoming another baby into the mix can only make life more of a struggle. That doesn’t mean it’s a bad idea to have children. It might just mean parents need to figure out a way for both of them to get some downtime away from the kids every now and then.

Becoming a parent hits some people harder than others

As much as we try, there’s a good chance most of us will never be able to undo the cruel hands of time. However, welcoming another baby might not be as much of a struggle for mom as it is for dad. Plenty have learned that pregnant people tend to have somewhat of a glow about them.

That appears to be the case for mom here, who’s enjoying a real Disney moment as the birds gently show off her flowing locks to the world. Dad? He’s left wondering what happened to all of his hair and why his dark locks are suddenly looking suspiciously silver. No one ever said that growing old is easy.

Everything’s fun and games until the children only want one of their parents

Have you ever had one of those moments when you feel totally in control only to realize everyone else has other ideas? You’re not alone. One of the biggest struggles of having another baby can be learning just that. Perhaps that’s why Yehuda Devir and his wife Maya wanted to bring it to life in their comic series?

While dad probably felt confident that everything was going to plan, the little ones had other ideas as they wanted no one other than mom to make them feel better. We just hope it wasn’t long before they realized time with dad is just as great, and the tears stopped so that everyone could get back to being happy.

There are moments that remind parents why the struggles are always worth it

Sure, there are plenty of struggles when having another baby. However, there are also plenty of benefits to growing a family. Yehuda Devir and his wife Maya have always been open about the struggles they face as a family, usually bringing them to life through their comics. Thankfully, they’ve also enjoyed plenty of benefits along the way.

Moments like spending the night cuddled in bed as a family can be all some people need to remember why they had a child in the first place. Of course, it wouldn’t be one of Yehuda’s drawings without the little Hulk plushie sleeping on his shoulder and the unicorn plushie snuggled up in the bundle in the bed.